Have you ever felt more disconnected?

[spurs mental]

Find myself totally switching off when we lose straight away, the irritation isn't there as it was before.

When we win the happiness lasts maybe half an hour to an hour after before that euphoria is gone.

I think maybe just as I've gotten older I've realised there's really no point getting wound up or excited or upset, etc over something we have no control over. There are bigger things to worry about, personally.

Support the team, love the club, feel an affection for some of the players, and Conte, again. But the pain and suffering is less. And I'm glad. It's not healthy to feel that way, for me anyway.

Each to their own. Doesn't make me any less of a fan than someone who goes every week and screams their head off, gets wound up etc.

 

[Gassin's finest]

Find myself totally switching off when we lose straight away, the irritation isn't there as it was before.

When we win the happiness lasts maybe half an hour to an hour after before that euphoria is gone.

I think maybe just as I've gotten older I've realised there's really no point getting wound up or excited or upset, etc over something we have no control over. There are bigger things to worry about, personally.

Support the team, love the club, feel an affection for some of the players, and Conte, again. But the pain and suffering is less. And I'm glad. It's not healthy to feel that way, for me anyway.

Each to their own. Doesn't make me any less of a fan than someone who goes every week and screams their head off, gets wound up etc.

I'm in complete agreement. I've more than done my time as a supporter, there's a point where life is more important.

 

[jurgen11]

Imagine how boring it would be to be winning every week. You cant beat a good old moan can you ?

 

[blankom]

I like spaghetti

 

[Albertbarich]

I'm really disconnected.

Football is a dirty rotten sesspit anyway and our owners aren't interested in winning but still charge prices like the best team in the world .

It's not changing and I find myself xaring less and less.

Fuck them all.

 

[shelfboy68]

I'm really disconnected.

Football is a dirty rotten sesspit anyway and our owners aren't interested in winning but still charge prices like the best team in the world .

It's not changing and I find myself xaring less and less.

Fuck them all.

Yeah I think most of us have lost interest your right fuck them.

 

[spurs mental]

 

[Dougal]

I feel connected. Much like the bloke in that last Saw film whose finger nails were connected to some kind of mangle that was dragging him slowly towards his doom.

COYS!

 

[riggi]

If you don’t hate this club with a raging passion then you are not a proper spurs fan.

 

[shelfboy68]

If you don’t hate this club with a raging passion then you are not a proper spurs fan.

We don't have a proper club anymore very depressing.

 

[riggi]

We don't have a proper club anymore very depressing.

Think I’ve slipped into the non attendance stage of my life.

 

[southlondonyiddo]

Think I’ve slipped into the non attendance stage of my life.

From football or generally?

 

[riggi]

From football or generally?

Well the way things are in the world I think I’m going to find a nice little patch of land and disconnect!

 

[piedpiper]

I'm not feeling disconnected but I do sometimes feel guilty for getting my sons to support this our team..... after evey loss o just say sorry to them...they never understand why I'm apologizing.... but it's for getting them hooked and 20 yrs later we have 1 trophy to show for it.

 

[Gassin's finest]

Well the way things are in the world I think I’m going to find a nice little patch of land and disconnect!

Nowhere is safe from the fires of war, comrade.

 

[CoopsieDeadpool]

I'm not feeling disconnected but I do sometimes feel guilty for getting my sons to support this our team..... after evey loss o just say sorry to them...they never understand why I'm apologizing.... but it's for getting them hooked and 20 yrs later we have 1 trophy to show for it.

Reporting you to social services.

 

[Deleted member 29446]

I'm not feeling disconnected but I do sometimes feel guilty for getting my sons to support this our team..... after evey loss o just say sorry to them...they never understand why I'm apologizing.... but it's for getting them hooked and 20 yrs later we have 1 trophy to show for it.

 

[HW61]

I hated the Sugar years. He created a hateful environment. But I was passionate. ENIC have stripped the soul of the club and since Poch’s demise I just feel completely neutral. No desire to go since giving up my season ticket after 40 years. Beautiful stadium…but in a theatre kind of way, not the raw edge of The Lane.

Always will be my club. But I get my enjoyment coming on here more than I do watching this current roster of players.

 

[Jamturk]

I feel disconnected from the game as a whole not Spurs.

In fact Spurs is the strand that keeps pulling me back in.

I don't know how long this will last for though with the dire football we are attaining to over the last few years.

We used to be fun to watch.

 

[spursfan77]

The only thing that will make me go back next season as a season ticket holder will be moving seats and my children.

I can’t sit with the moaners behind me any more. Maybe that will be the first step to getting back into it because at the moment I hate going to games because of them, I hate watching us on tv because of the anxiety. Funnily enough I don’t get that anxiety at matches, but I hate going to games because of the dicks who sit moaning behind me.

I’m going to start taking my eldest who wants to go to games. I suspect that will be the only thing that keeps me going. Maybe that will give me the love back because if it wasn’t for him I’d probably give it all up. I feel guilty enough now getting him involved in being a spurs fan but if it’s something we can do together then it will be worth going.

As for the wider game, I hate it. VAR ruins celebrating almost as much as the financially doped clubs ruin our chances of trophies. It will never be the same.