- Aug 20, 2013
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Not to get all woke here, but if your attitude is that you should be able to go anywhere and do anything without fear (correct!) and therefore nobody should be given advice to protect their own safety from bigoted imbeciles (overly utopian and dangerous!), you're almost certainly a straight white guy. Every woman I know has to think about how to get home safely after a night out. Every LGBT+ person I know has to think about what countries they can safely visit, especially if they want to be open. Every Black person I know has had to consider which neighborhoods or pubs are safe, right here in their own country. None of us can just pretend we live in a perfect world. It's very privileged to consider that victim-blaming rather than things we should be furious that we have to do, but have to do none the less.