There are plenty of knitting forums out there. I recommend ravelry.com
Yeah, but Mrs Smithers on ravelry is trying to impose a cross stitch style on her jumpers when:
a) it's a reallyboringturgid style
b) it's clear that her jumpers are not suited to cross stitch and that crochet is the only way to go.
Not to mention that if she'd made thatsubstitutionstitch in time, she'd have saved nine.
If things don't change soon, then I'm sorry but Mrs. Smithers has to go. She is clueless.