Exactly this. We seem to struggle against the teams that rough us up and press high against our build up shape.This a thousand times. Fulham will rough us up as Palace and Ipswich did. I'd add the phrase 'high intensity' to this
and the match will go differently imo.
Should we lose people will be baffled because they tend to over focus on us and how we play not noticing how the opposition are playing.
For a 'lower' team without the resources to buy the best technical talent, they have to rely on roughing teams up and high intensity, the things our players hate most, hence we lose to these 'lower' teams and beat the higher, more technically based ones.